February 16th, 2006

Being Maverick

on sex on the first date...

Sinfest: On the First Date
On the First Date. 3/22/2000
So a few weeks ago, beststephi and I got into this conversation with atraxen and his girlfriend, Gabriella about the age old topic of "sex on the first date." I had been meaning to put some thoughts down about that here ever since then. But I never got around to it. However, due to the nice little Hallmark holiday we had a couple days ago, I figured now was a good time to put it out there.

Do boys lose respect for a girl who has sex on the first date?

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So where does the respect issue come from? Gabby seemed to really think there was something there. She honestly believed that boys thought about that sort of thing. Kevin and I both agreed that we don't. Boys like sex. We like girls who like to give out sex. I always hear that boys "want to marry a virgin." That's bullshit too. If a boy is going to promise to be with a girl for the rest of his life then he wants her to be experienced and to know some tricks. Is there anyone reading this who's only ever been with one person? And is still with them? And wants to talk about it? Anyone ever deflower a girl (or boy) and they knew instinctively where to put everything, how to move just right, how to do that thing with their tongue? Because I think you need practice and experience to learn that shit, and I think that comes from experimenting with different people over a long time.

"Yeah, the 72 virgins are interesting for a while, but eventually you're going to want a finger up your ass...and who will be there to do it?"
-Dennis Miller, the Raw Feed,
on the foolishness of receiving virgins as a reward in the afterlife

Of course that's just my opinion, I could be wrong... I wanna know what you think, America... blah blah blah...
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