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[User Picture]From: bryguypgh Date: March 10th, 2006 - 10:32 pm (Link)
No, all I'm saying is that parents use house rules to send messages about what they think is important. If there's any question of how serious the parents think the sin is, forbidding it under their roof should make it clear. Think of the rules as a megaphone for the communication of principles between generations.
[User Picture]From: chrismaverick Date: March 12th, 2006 - 04:46 pm (Link)
I guess I see how you might enforce such rules when the kid is a kid. But in say Toby's case. Where she and Matt were already living together, it just seems silly. Was there any chance whatsoever that she was gonna say after a visit "why, they're right. We shouldn't be living together yet. I'm moving out!"
[User Picture]From: bryguypgh Date: March 12th, 2006 - 05:21 pm (Link)
Clearly the rules on their own aren't enough, but if the relationship goes bad somehow and the child's life is in crisis the parent's values will stand out in sharp relief. Now again I'm not saying that I agree with these values, just that communicating values is important, and enforcing rules can reinforce that communication.
[User Picture]From: chrismaverick Date: March 13th, 2006 - 05:06 am (Link)
So then you theorize that its basically a parental way of covering their ass so that they can eventually go "I TOLD YOU SO!!!"

yeah, that makes sense...

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